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BaraCoded@literature.cafeto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•I'm gonna chemically castrate myself, should I tell my parents? (I am 26)
311·3 days agoPunishing yourself won’t help you in any way. Talk about it with your therapist, and if your therapist was the one to bring chemical castration up, bitchslap their f*cking face to the ground, because they are not a therapist. Change IS NOT about punishing yourself, change is about taking care of yourself. Punishing oneself achieves NOTHING.
BaraCoded@literature.cafeto
Technology@lemmy.world•Wine 11 runs Windows apps in Linux and macOS better than everEnglish
3·10 days agoVery interesting comments. Does anybody know of a good linux alternative for FLStudio? I’ve seen LMMS, but I’ve also read it wasn’t quite there yet
BaraCoded@literature.cafeto
Technology@lemmy.world•Wine 11 runs Windows apps in Linux and macOS better than everEnglish
11·10 days agoCan it run FLstudio?
BaraCoded@literature.cafeto
Leopards Ate My Face@lemmy.world•Danish Prime Minister calls USA their most important ally 🤦English
71·15 days agoNah, it’s just bullying, and probably the dangling of sensitive files on his allies, plus the fact that european leaders are stupid AF. This one is clearly bending the knee. Greenland is lost.
BaraCoded@literature.cafeto
World News@lemmy.world•China wife shocked that ‘People’s Armed Police officer’ husband is convicted killerEnglish
8·15 days agoNo source, no details, no feedback from the uncle even though he is the one who introduced the husband to the wife, the article mentions that the man has a child with another woman but never develops that story… Seems like wedding is quite a blind process in China. Was this article created by an AI or is it just bad journalism? Is this outlet the chinese equivalent of MSN.com or something?
“Natural sexy”
BaraCoded@literature.cafeto
Games@lemmy.world•Oblivion remake is... really making it apparent how outdated Bethesda is in its approach to making gamesEnglish
1·18 days agoI agree with OP, and it really became blatant when Starfield got out. Their design patterns and game engine have not evolved with the industry standards, and they don’t seem to have understood that. Fortunately, there are alternatives, like the Outer Worlds, Tainted Grail, etc. I guess the alternatives will become more and more interesting with time, as those game have showed that it was possible to do Bethesda-ish games without the shortcomings (and lies) of Bethesda.
BaraCoded@literature.cafeto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•When/how frequently do you replace your phone with a new one?
2·19 days agoUnfortunately I don’t know, as I’ve never used banking apps (I manage sensitive informations from my computer, which feels safer to me), but I hope somebody else will be able to answer that question!
BaraCoded@literature.cafeto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What events are you looking forward to in 2026?
8·19 days agoWaking up from the Nightmare.
BaraCoded@literature.cafeto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•When/how frequently do you replace your phone with a new one?
6·19 days agoI’d say about every 7 years, or older. Using custom roms, it’s possible to keep a phone up-to-date for a while, or even to escape google services (on android, of course) using MicroG. Personally, I use /e/os, which has all that built in (including a tracker blocker). It is very neat.
BaraCoded@literature.cafeto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•You are the dictator of an island nation 900,000 km² in size, 30,000,000 in population, and a random country in the list of top 10 militaries will attack your country in 10 years; what is your plan?
6·22 days agoBuild the biggest soft power possible to make allies (video games, movies, medicine, etc), send spies everywhere to identify potential attacker/warmongers, assassinate them.
If nothing works, make the island a fiscal paradise. Predators don’t shit where they eat.
You’re already dealing with grief, and you’re doing it in your own way. Know that it will pass. Some people break down, some people are just more vulnerable for a time, some people don’t give a f, some others pretend they don’t give a f and break down in private, some others don’t care, etc.
All you have to do if you have an outburst is to stay conscious of your context and maybe explore the roots of your feeling. It boils down to asking yourself “why”. Being confronted to our mortality always has an impact, and may the conclusion of our experiences inspire us to enjoy life and what/who’s in it a little more. Be patient and kind to yourself and others. Talk with them if that is possible. Some good can come out of it.
“I have my bears” does not exist in the french language.
Kindly,
A french guy.
BaraCoded@literature.cafeto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•My mom says that people who don't have "value" don't deserve to live and that "depression" is just an excuse for laziness. What's is your rebuttal for it?
7·1 month agoDon’t argue, she’s obviously toxic. Leave her life. The furthest away you can. People who think like that just abuse and ruin others, and if you’re at the point where you wonder whether she’s using “special techniques” or smthg, it means she got to your mental health. See a therapist to mend what was broken, and get away from this toxic woman.
BaraCoded@literature.cafeto
Technology@lemmy.world•Firefox Will Ship with an "AI Kill Switch" to Completely Disable all AI Features - 9to5LinuxEnglish
231·1 month agoThey could save time and efforts and just not implement AI features



Or you’re willing to guilt-trip your familly for your what-you’re-chosing-to-see-as-a problem.
The real point being: a f*cking LOT of people are virgin/single until later than average, and particularly in your generation. You are living in a time when women are as much as men being driven to ambition and exploitation by career, leaving way less time for people to LIVE, in an economy were one single bread-earner can’t provide for a family, so much that our generations don’t want to make children as it is NOT AFFORDABLE. Let’s not forget how ALIENATED our expectations are ever since the emergence of dating apps and social networks, as it has turned humans into products seeking value and/or valorisation. Not even talking about influencers, who litteraly are the incarnation of consumerism: making people feel bad about themselves so as to sell them something, anything, especially more shit to make people feel bad about themselves so they buy the next thing. Oh, and should we talk about how covid confinement had an impact on the socio-affective life of everybody? You’re 26. You’re living in late-stage capitalism and this late-stage cancerous era is eveything you’ve ever known. You’ve come in at the shittiest of times.
So, yeah, you can punish yourself and your family and take your black pill into suicide OR, you can pinpoint what are the most alienating elements to human society by asking yourself the right questions. Because it’s you, man, but it’s mostly you VS the alienating society we live in and how we hurt ourselves trying to please it, even though it actually is a giant slimy tumor. You are not alone, it’s not only about you, it’s also about the state of the world around us and what it makes of us all.
Now put yourself in the perspective of the world we live in and then ask yourself what could be different, how to achieve it and who benefit most from things being as they are right now. You might discover some goodness toward yourself.
Else, if it’s just a sex/bigottry problem, please do masturbate and stop listening to people saying that touching yourself is sin or that you are a better male when you don’t JO. It’s utter bullshit. If god had given you a mean to enjoy yourself only to punish you for doing it, then god is a sadist, a bully and an imbecile. People eat, people drink, people piss, people shit, people masturbate. It’s called being human.
Else, if it’s another problem, please do talk about it all with your therapist.