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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • my 2 cents:

    none of what you’ve written here indicates you weren’t born gay.

    “…wish i was in the woman’s shoes in porn (autogynephilia), that was my first homo sexual desire.”

    that doesn’t sound like you were “simply born straight”

    your post strongly suggests to me you have a lot to learn and accept about sexuality.

    “always had a totally masculine identity, male engagements”

    saying something like this indicates to me that you don’t understand the complexities of masculinity, femininity or sexuality.

    did you read a lot of books as a child? is that masculine or feminine? did you climb trees?

    assigning labels and expectations to your behaviors may be why you don’t view your own sexuality as “a case of normal, stable homosexuality”.

    which is what it sounds like you are discovering: a case of innate normal, stable homosexuality.



  • I was in the same boat and read a lot of different books and watched videos on how to draw, and the number one thing that helped me was the frequency with which I drew.

    techniques made a difference certainly, but the amount that I drew was the primary factor in how satisfied I became with my art.

    if I can share purely anecdotal evidence, something that seems to help me was not drawing the next line until I could see the next line in my head, and project that mental next line onto the paper that I was drawing.

    I didn’t read that or watch that anywhere, I just thought that if I could picture what I wanted to draw in my head, I could probably draw it, and until that point I wasnt clearly picturing what I wanted to draw in my head.










  • ““Big” or “small” is relative, which was exactly my original point.”

    you are incorrect.

    your original point was that the cracks showing in Trump’s administration were tiny cracks, which is objectively false.

    then you changed it to say that the cracks were relatively tiny compared to a vague, unquantifiable overwhelming opposition, which is a different comparison (those are the goal posts you changed), which is also objectively untrue, as shown above.

    now you are pretending that an objective statement is the same as a relative statement, which it objectively is not.

    you don’t have to hide behind reinterpreting what you said; accept your mistake and move on.

    “that’s all the interest I have in arguing with someone about this.”

    obviously untrue, as you concocted a reimagining of events and posted them.

    “I am not talking to you” he claims, talking to you.




  • “tiny cracks” like dozens of judges blocking presidential executive orders and blocking administrative Nationwide policy.

    tiny cracks like your own party turning against you, like literally Nationwide protests and civil rights union suing the presidential administration?

    those are not little cracks, and it is ignorant and meaning a few to pretend that they are.

    those Resistance movements are very clear demonstrations that everybody, even the extremists think Trump is harmful.

    no one talked about complacency before you did.

    there are cracks, these are the facts. you don’t have to caution against things that are not happening, you have to recognize what is happening and deal with the reality there.