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  • Difficulty settings are, first and foremost, accessibility settings.

    I have to disagree with this. Difficulty settings are at best a bandaid solution to accessibility. The vast vast majority of difficulty settings change the overall gameplay experience, games are far too complex for ‘just make it easier’ to be an appropriate approach to accessibility.

    Just reducing enemy health, simplifying enemy ai, etc. can only make a game more accessible as a side effect, it doesn’t address the actual accessibility issues people might have.

    I also don’t think games should have hard modes. They should have exactly 1 difficulty the developers balance around.

    There absolutely should be accessibility options that have the side effect of making the game easier but making the game easier is the wrong approach to make it accessible.

    My suggestion would be stuff like tuning response windows to the results of a reaction time test, aim assist options, visual cues for sound effects, etc. Those make the game easier but do it by addressing a single specific issue, or combination of issues, someone’s dealing with instead of just slapping on a one size fits all solution.













  • Consent require all parties to know the consequences to be fully informed

    Yes, that’s what I said earlier:

    “Consent doesn’t mean only doing things you’re into, it means you’re agreeing to it free from any pressure or influence on your decision and you know everything you need to know to make your decision.

    When I say I don’t care what people do as long as there’s consent, that’s a requirement built into that statement. The vast vast majority of choking isn’t consentual, that’s the issue we need to address.

    There is no after care for brain damage. This is where the kink community needs to come together to put their foot down.

    This isn’t a kink issue, it’s a mainstream issue.the kink community takes consent and safety incredibly seriously. In this case that’s stuff like roleplay choking or breathplay.



  • Okay this comment makes me think you don’t understand consent.

    If it was SO consensual why are guys not getting choked equally?

    My partner has fetishes I’m not into, but I engage in them because I want to give him the pleasure he gets from them. Is that not consentual because I’m not into the fetish?

    Consent doesn’t mean only doing things you’re into, it means you’re agreeing to it free from any pressure or influence on your decision and you know everything you need to know to make your decision.

    I won’t be choked and I wouldn’t choke someone because it is dangerous and I’m uncomfortable with it regardless of if the other person wants it. But as long as people consent and know the risks I don’t care what others do.

    The answer is it isn’t. It is about dominance and power not a consensual act.

    Dominance and power can absolutely be consentually engaged in. The bdsm community takes consent incredibly seriously.

    There are larger cultural elements behind what people are into that are worth examining. Cultural influence doesn’t necessarily mean it isn’t consentual though.