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Cake day: June 6th, 2023

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  • I didn’t see any of the hype for the Barbie movie (apparently they painted streets in London pink?), but I just went in and saw it. Awesome film

    Also: A laser tape measure. I always heard about people ranting about them, and often thought “I get it I get it you’re a child who likes shiny things”, but I finally got one and it is one of my most prized possessions. I can now find out the distance to things like THAT.

    Didn’t live up the hype: I caved in and got a mechanical keyboard. A nice one. Keychron something such. I now have a heavy clackety-clack keyboard. That’s it. The usual plastic 15 quid keyboards I get are only every so slightly less good. Don’t buy into this fad. It’s for ASMR fanatics and their heavy wallets




  • I guess, just imagine if someone who you didn’t particularly find atttactive but was friendly, said the same thing to you.

    You would suddenly feel a little less liberated in your nudity, and perhaps feel the need to avoid that person, even if their intentions were not impure.

    I think you meant well, and you added the nudity part to your compliment because it was such a new and profound way to suddenly see something beautiful.

    Nudity usually takes on an erotic undertone, so it may genuinely have been a eureka moment for you to see something naked and beautiful outside that erotic context.

    Unfortunately that undertone is there, no matter your intention, and I know you want to defend your intentions, but you would be digging a hole by doing so.

    No need to spiral into complete self-doubt on whether you’re a good person or not. You know your intentions, you just goofed up on the delivery and unfortunately that made someone feel less secure.

    It’s a learning experience, and you seem keen to learn, and I think just tread a bit more carefully in the future.

    Thanks for sharing your story by the way, I feel like I’ve learned from it a bit myself









  • well when a mommy asymptote and a daddy asymptote meet on opposite ends of an infinite grid, they give birth to a finite area that is carefully and lovingly defined, until the mommy asymptote runs away with a thick veiny fat curve that rules her world, and the daddy asymptote just stands there night-after-night watching them bisect each other