Last night I had a hookup for the first time. I told the guy I wanted him to use a condom, which offended him because he was like, “Why do I need to use one if you already have an IUD? Do you think I’m some STD-ridden guy?” I told him I just don’t know him that well. Either way it was fine in the end, he put it on and it was a fine night. Now I’m thinking, was I being a pushover?
Yeah but unprotected sex with a stranger is malice in and of itself.
Agreed, but we’re they really strangers if the guy knew she had a IUD? I inferred some level of familiarity from there.
In any case, if I were to ask such question it would be either before or after the deed, so whatever.