• Pommes_für_dein_Balg@feddit.org
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    13 days ago

    German here. A friend from Grundschule (grades 1-4) is the son of Turkish immigrants.
    His parents both didn’t speak German, so he struggled with the language.
    They also sent him to a Turkish language Islam school in the afternoons.
    As a classmate, I helped him with his homework, and I think I was the only German friend he had.
    When my parents bought a new PC (a 386!) I hauled our old 286 to my friend and helped him install games on it.
    Then I went to Gymnasium (the secondary school that prepares you for university) and he went to Hauptschule (the most basic secondary school that usually leads to a job involving manual labor, driving a forklift if you’re lucky, or unemployment).

    20 years later I met him again.
    I had failed to finish a university degree twice in a row and was unemployed at the time. It was still a year before I accepted reality and took up jobs washing dishes or cleaning out houses after their inhabitants had passed away.
    In the meantime, he had finished Hauptschule, switched to a school qualifying you for college, finished an MBA, founded an IT consulting company, hired 14 employees, married and had 4 children.
    He told me that with the computer my family gave him, he could do the taxes for his parents and learnt a lot about IT and business early on.